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Thursday, June 2



I hope Paris Hilton takes notes on this: The best way to keep your marriage alive is to have an open relationship. Very open. Ask permission before you cheat on your spouse. And then like dominos, everything else will fall into place.

Will and Jada Smith made a decision that they could sleep with other people as long as they are up front about it and it's not kept secret. Will confesses, "Our perspective is you don't avoid what's natural. You're going to be attracted to people. In our marriage vows, we didn't say 'forsaking all others'."

Will understands Jada might need to have sex with a person other than him. If she gets the urge to get down and dirty with another - be it man or woman- then by all means, he will accept it as long as she asks permission first. It's always smart to exercise good manners before jumping into bed with someone else.

This goes along with Goldie Hawns opinion that men need to spread their seed. It's simply not normal to be with one person for the rest of your life. Which makes the whole idea of marriage seem so outdated and silly. In the immortal words of the great deep thinker, Kevin Federline, "Love is...love. Love is...commitment." Yeah! Right on, Socrates.


29 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...
She is sooo looking like a man. @ 6:17 AM GMT+1  
Anonymous Anonymous said...
i dont like those new ideas about open marriages, because what is the idea of marriage then? @ 11:11 AM GMT+1  
Anonymous Anonymous said...
Does this woman bother anyone else when she does interviews? She tries to sound like 50 cent or something "you know what I'm saying?"
I wish Will Smith would divorce her so she would stop getting movie roles. @ 1:55 PM GMT+1  
Anonymous skyla said...
I think she's a better actor than Will Smith, but then again I'm biased as someone said I looked like her. @ 2:29 PM GMT+1  
Anonymous Anonymous said...
I think it's up to the people involved to decide what is best for them in their relationship. Just because they agree on something that might not work for you doesn't mean it's wrong or that it impacts the value of your relationship in any way. @ 4:22 PM GMT+1  
Anonymous Jen said...
Personally, I haven't seen all that many happily married couples in my lifetime. I think most people get married partially out of insecurity.
I can take it or leave it, myself. @ 4:33 PM GMT+1  
Anonymous Anonymous said...
She looka...lika...man. @ 5:31 PM GMT+1  
Anonymous Anonymous said...
"I think most people get married partially out of insecurity."

Jen YOU ARE SO RIGHT!!!!

Jada is overrated but Will Smith is hotness. @ 6:21 PM GMT+1  
Anonymous Anonymous said...
Why even bother getting married? @ 6:59 PM GMT+1  
Anonymous Anonymous said...
Wrong Skyla! You are waaaaay prettier that she is! She's abrasive and obnoxious which really dumbs down her looks.

lg :) @ 8:56 PM GMT+1  
Blogger mb said...
"Why even bother getting married?"

Because some of us like to share. Why should we have to marry every woman or man that we want to have sex with? I am married to the man I love...the men and women we sleep with have nothing to do with that.

We enjoy seeing each other's pleasure and sharing that pleasure, that's a huge part of it. Not everybody is turned on by the idea of their husband having sex with a women right in front of them...but I am, and also love being with women.

Actually open marriages are different from swinging, which is what we do. Swinging is an activity enjoyed as a couple. OM is more focused on each partner persuing different sexual partners on their own.

It's not a new idea, Anon 6:11, it's been around since the beginning of society. Swinging, swapping, open marriage, whatever you want to call it. Monogamy is a relatively new concept in the great scheme of things. Sharing is not for everyone, but it's lovely for us.

:) @ 9:16 PM GMT+1  
Blogger Pisser said...
Oh, brother.

Since when does Jada dress like Li'l "Zip-off Hair" Kim...? @ 9:56 PM GMT+1  
Anonymous Anonymous said...
I'm against swinging because honestly, the whoile point of getting married is expressing eternal love and COMMITMENT. And even if you say, "Oh, but we still love each other." Then that still means your having sex with people you aren't married to, that you don't love. @ 12:55 AM GMT+1  
Anonymous Anonymous said...
"Not now, son. Daddy is f*cking another woman in the bedroom. No honey its OK bc he asked mommy first."

Give me a break. @ 5:32 PM GMT+1  
Anonymous Anonymous said...
If swinging works for some couples, great, but my husband would ache inside if I were intimate with another man, and I like that. @ 8:40 PM GMT+1  
Blogger solitaire said...
I'm vexed at her dressing like that. That shiznit doesn't work with me, Jada. Usually you're so classy, girl.

If you gon' fall off, I'll take Will off your hands, STRAIGHTWAY! @ 4:04 AM GMT+1  
Anonymous Anonymous said...
Jen, I think that's a blatant generalization. @ 1:19 AM GMT+1  
Blogger Kim said...
Why is she dressing this way? It was probably Will that started the "open marriage" thing. He's the main reason she's getting decent movie roles. @ 3:39 AM GMT+1  
Blogger pokeybones said...
swingers that brag think they know something we don't know. In fact they are couples that are sick of each other but too insecure to get a divorce and find the right person for them. Probably 'cause they know nobody else would want them.

Now for Will and Jada they're just plain yucky! @ 5:25 PM GMT+1  
Anonymous Anonymous said...
Women are such haters...your all hating on jada becasue she has will, get over yourselves.

as for the swingin, thats a joke, why get married if you want to sex other people? I agree with what was said earlier, just an excuse for people who dont want a divorce because its "taboo" @ 2:02 PM GMT+1  
Anonymous Anonymous said...
Wake up women! Will is one man he can only be with one woman. Leave is wife alone. You are even worse because you want to take a man from his wife. No matter what you say about Jada there is no chance for either of you. He is trying hundred percent to make his wife happy. And also, he said “If I said I will do something I will do it, other wise I’m dead.” You might as well give up, and don’t waste your time find your own man. Other wise you will get old waiting, and then eventually will be too late getting any kind of man. Most of you say nasty things about her because you are jealous.

The main reason I went across this website is because I was interested to know more about will’s and his wife seeing other people for sex. I have had respect for will since the day I found out that he was committed to his wife and marriage. There are many men and women who are faithful for their marriage, but I found will’s commitment more honorable because I knew how hard it is for a man in his place to stay married to one woman. As we can see countless women are fighting for him. Unlike the other faithful men who are not a celebrity, many women try to tempt him, take him to themselves if possible. So I respected his courage and commitment to his “wife.” Most Hollywood actors does not show this kind of commitment. He is one of my favorite actors, he is amazing actor, but I liked his personality more than his act. I could see good actors like him, but not like his manners. So many good things can be said about him. I’m working hard to become somebody, because I have certain things I want to do with my life before I die. When I succeed with my goal I wanted to meet him in person and tell him how a great person he is. Obviously, Its easy to meet who ever you want to meet when you are somebody, so I knew I had to wait.

Any way, recently, I saw on a web that the key to this commitment was telling to the wife when he wants to sleep with other people. I couldn’t believe what I read. I tried to look for other sits to see if that was true. I found it in this site too. If what I saw is true, then I was mistaken to give so much credit for his personality, because this was the firs thing I admired. If his target is to prove to people that stay can stay married for ever, then he is doing it well. The two comments I liked above say---

"Not now, son. Daddy is f*cking another woman in the bedroom. No honey its OK bc he asked mommy first."
Give me a break.

I'm against swinging because honestly, the whoile point of getting married is expressing eternal love and COMMITMENT. And even if you say, "Oh, but we still love each other." Then that still means your having sex with people you aren't married to, that you don't love.

I cant believe this is what we are teaching to our kids!! Any body please tell me where I can read or hear if will says anything about seeing other people. I still want to know for fact. @ 3:12 AM GMT+1  
Anonymous Fe said...
Who is anyone to judge anyone else's anything? There is always something people put up with in their marriage or life. And some things you put up with, someone else may not. If they are happy, so what!!! Any judging that will be done, will be done in time, AND NOT BY US! Jada and Will are HOT! @ 9:14 PM GMT+1  
Anonymous Anonymous said...
I just think all you white bithces are mad! Get the hell over it! LOL! @ 12:40 AM GMT+1  
Anonymous Anonymous said...
Whatever the case, swinging is disgusting and demoralizes the entire concept of marriage and commitment to one another. It absolutely sickens me to even know that people participate in such minimalistic behavior. Is this what we want to teach our children? So we would eventually have a freely open sex society where, I swear the end of the human race will be a direct result of the transmission of STD's. Give me a break people. @ 1:50 PM GMT  
Anonymous Anonymous said...
Don't blame them because it works in their relationship. Sex ie sex and Love is Love. People have sex with other people without being in love. Its an activity. I actually commend them on being open and honest. Did you know that the mariage success rate is higher for monogomous relationships than open marriages. Over 50 percent of all marriages end in divorce. marriage does not equal sex otherwise everyone would be breaking their necks to get married. i don't expect everyone to accept just like anything else. Some will and some won't. @ 11:22 PM GMT  
Anonymous MeMe said...
They MUST be doing something right since they have one the best relationships in Hollywood right now. Their an item. People use them as an example for a good relationship. "We're tight like Will & Jada". Thats powerful. Stop hatin! @ 8:12 PM GMT  
Anonymous Anonymous said...
Addressing the issue of Marriage-
First of all marriage is between a male and female. It was ordained by God. It is not something taken lightly. In the beginning God created Eve from Adam for Adam. The Bible clearly talks about a man finding a wife. Therefore, God already intended for the male to find a wife. Sex was also ordained by God. According to the Bible sex is what actually makes a man and woman married to one another. This is why we are to remain pure until marriage.People don't realize how serious it is when you sleep with different people whom you are not married to. One picks up the spirit of the other people whom they are sleeping with as well as the other people that person has slept with.

Addressing the issue of sleeping with the same sex- According to the Bible God made woman from man. Since God is the creator of everything, if He wanted man and man or woman and woman He could have very well done so. But, if He had none of us would be here. Simply because a man and a man can not be fruitful and multiply.People we have got to have some moral standards. It is not my place to judge anyone, but I can speak about the spirit of a person. As far as their spirits I pray that they will truly began to seek the Lord about what His requirements are pertaining to marriage.God never intended any marriage to be open. Marriage is a covenant with one another and with God. @ 2:10 PM GMT  
Anonymous desire said...
Been seeing someone for 16+ years, and for most of those, we've seen other people. The love is deep, but one reason we aren't married is cuz we've both still got a few "wild oats". When we both feel we need no one else, then perhaps marriage. Like most of you, I believe marriage is a lifetime committment between 2 people. What's the point of "open" and "swinging"? Why not just stay single and screw any and all? If Will and Jada are so outragously happy with one another, why the need for others? Marriage doesn't = dead; it's ok to look and lust, but to act on it shows nothing but disrespect, and is a sign of weakness and no self-control.

And not for nothing, poster above me, but there are plenty of hetero couples who are infertile, and cannot "be fruitful and multiply". Also, there are couples who make a concious choice not to procreate. Should these heretics be banned from marrying? @ 1:02 AM GMT+1  
Anonymous Anonymous said...
The photo you have posted is not Jada -- it's a look-alike! @ 2:36 AM GMT  
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